Lonely Wives Pad: Naughty Wife Stories

I’m kind of that type of person who doesn’t believe before seeing. And right now, I’m telling you: I am a believer. After surfing the Net more on online dating for adults, I came to realize that I am not the single housewife feeling so… neglected. Apparently there are many more sad housewives out there. Hundreds. Thousands! There were these several lonely wives club hosting forums for wives and moms, talking about marriage, family, relationship, romance, health, fashion, sex and, in a more highlighted sense, personal experiences on sex and affairs. I also came across several directories listing what seemed like endless archives of hundreds of adult dating websites. Personal wives blogs also swarm the Internet nowadays, with authors sharing their real life married experiences: happy ones, contented ones, nauthy ones, then sad ones, bored, desperate ones…

Why these married women resort to the web to vent, rave or rant about their joys and pains as housewives or moms is quite becoming clear to me: There is this freedom of sorts, what with the choice to reveal real stories and truths while remaining anonymous and all. Of course there were also those who didn’t hold back in sharing. They put their private sex lives and “adventurous” affairs out there in the Net and they label it with their very names. Although I still need to get used to the idea a bit more before shaking the hands of these very bold but very naughty wives. LOL!

Now, speaking economics, while the supply overflows the demand also seem to rise. I even saw this online dating service for cheating housewives. A few years ago I’d have found the idea of men scouring the web to date married women, but today, more than surprising, it is intriguing and very inviting… As a matter of fact, if a stranger husband would ask me out, maybe I’ll have no second thoughts and just jump right at the opportunity for some fun with an actual eager husband… After all, he’d probably found me hot, and that’s more than enough appreciation if you ask me. But I’m getting ahead of myself again.

Personally, now I am relieved. Not only am I not alone anymore in this lonely housewife universe, but now I also know that wanting some attention for myself and even doing naughty things for it is not bad at all. If anything, it’s only natural for lonely wives to consider options in finding happiness. Learning from those wives stories online has enouraged me to be more open to new things, especially now that I refuse to remain a lonely house wife for the rest of my life. Pardon the cliche, but us lonely wives just wanna have hot fun!

So I spent the entire weekend searching the web for these so-called online dating services. What greatly encouraged me was its promise of privacy and discretion. True enough, all date sites I came across had one same feature in common: the offer of discreet encounters. Which I very much need to be able to pursue my quest for some extramarital affair, some personal fun…

But enough about that for now. What intrigues me more is this another HUGE discovery on my part. Suddenly, it’s like I have a new wish in life: to be a MILF. “Mother I’d Like to Fuck” would normally shock my rather conservative ears but right now my willingness to try new things and experiences constantly fuels my interest. Philandering men sneaking around with lonely women… cheating husbands hooking up with hot and naughty wives like me… That’s exactly what I need right now! Mutual companionship. Personal fun. Pleasure!

This online adult dating thing just keeps getting more and more inviting…

Week 2 and I’m now officially a housewife on a mission. Getting snubbed again by Trevor after he came home from the “boys’ weekend” only proves that it’s time for me to stop moping and start looking for fun myself. He’s not giving me anything so yeah, I’m gonna go look for it someplace else. And no, it’s the other kind of fun aside from hanging out with my girl friends. I need excitement and I’m gonna find it. But how, without going out there right away?

Luckily nobody’s been using the PC and since I can’t really leave the house except when grocery shopping or book reading at the neighbors’, there’s only one option a bit more fun than infomercials: web surfing. Plus it has more choices rather than just staring at the neighbor’s hot gardener all morning. I’m no expert but I do know the basics of Internet use. It’s nothing shocking to me either: scandalous content, ugly news, porn. I don’t understand how my boys get addicted to computer games but I do know curiosity and as boys will be boys, surfing for porn in our computer wasn’t something that would have surprised me. What interests me more, though, are those websites with online communities. I see my teenage daughter spend hours and hours chatting and going to Friendster, MySpace, Facebook and Multiply and she’s told me about them too. Then I was told there are more sites like them… more adult-friendly sites, that is.

Searching for such websites today gave me an idea just how many hundreds of them really exist. Online dating sites, adult married personals, forums for married people, sites for lonely wives, sites for husbands, for couples, for single people. Sites for “searching for love”, “looking for companionship”, “finding connection”, “something new and exciting”, “searching for fun”. Bingo. I might find what I’m looking for in these websites! For sure there are a lot more like me feeling bored in their marriage—and maybe a whole lot more of those willing to help forget the loneliness, even for a while.

I’ve never really gone looking for people in the Internet, much less look for those whom to spend fun times with. This is going to be this housewife’s next adventure.

On our first few years as a married couple Trevor and I—like other married people, I bet—for lack of a more grown-up expression, had a blast. We shared anything and everything and we loved every day of it. We cooked together, ate together, shopped, read the morning paper, watched weekly movies together… even feed Fatty, our cat, together. We love each other and we were yelling it out to the world. And that’s just half of it: On the more exciting part of life we got to enjoy more our sex life. We shared fantasies. We shared passion and we were never shy. We loved making love!

Until our third child, our only daughter, was born. It was then that I began noticing changes in Trev. Small ones at first, then they escalated to bigger things. He began missing family dinners. He began sending me to do the groceries alone—lucky if he asks one of our sons to skip video games and go with me. He began missing out on our anniversaries (first kiss, first date, wedding anniversary!). His and his buddies’ baseball nights have stretched to weekend road trips. To all-nighters at his friends’ private parties. To mysterious gifts for friends’ she-cousins whom I never met despite all the birthdays they supposedly had celebrated.

And his mood—suddenly I lost touch on how to push his buttons. Lately it’s like grumpy now, grumpy again later. More than sad, it’s unfair. I even tried losing weight and regain my pre-mom body and looking more beautiful and sexier than my age for him to notice me again. But apparently, our gap has become bigger than my insecurities. The heat between us is gone and I don’t interest him anymore. Our friendship is off. The sex drive is lost… Now that I think of it, we haven’t had sex in the last seven months. We haven’t kissed in the lips since god knows when and I can’t even remember when we last went to bed at the same time!

I miss my husband. I miss the fun we used to have. I miss the passion and heat we used to share. I miss the connection. To him I am nothing but his housewife who cooks his meals. I love him so much and I don’t want to leave him… but it’s becoming too lonely and boring for me as well. It can be just a phase between me and Trevor but I have needs and I deserve to satisfy them now.

I need to do something.